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Natural oils for vaginal dryness, soreness & irritation

Although it’s hardly talked about, every woman experiences vaginal dryness at some point in her life. It’s most common in women above 40, but even in your 20’s and 30’s it can affect you. Apart from being uncomfortable and frankly annoying, it can interfere with an otherwise healthy sex life.

oils for vaginal dryness

Some of the symptoms of vaginal dryness are itching, burning, soreness, frequent urination, and pain during sex. Luckily, there are plenty of natural oils that you can use to feel better. Figuring out why you’re suffering from a dry vagina and how to treat it will help you feel more confident, comfortable, and sexy.

Hormonal changes are the most common reason why women experience vaginal dryness. Estrogen plays a huge role in the overall health and pH levels of the vagina. Estrogen levels drop during menopause and after childbirth. And without enough estrogen, the vagina can’t produce enough lubrication.

As if mood swings and intense chocolate cravings weren’t bad enough! If you aren’t menopausal or postpartum, consider getting your hormone levels checked by a doctor- you may have a hormonal imbalance.

Healing vaginal dryness

Stay hydrated

This may seem simple and obvious. But if you aren’t drinking enough water, you won’t be able to produce enough lubrication! Aim for 8 cups a day.

Medication may cause vaginal dryness

Different medications, especially birth control, can cause vaginal dryness. Have a look at the medications you’re taking and see if any of them list vaginal dryness as a side effect.

Relieve stress

Anxiety and stress just make everything worse. Your body is tense and everything feels out of whack. Reflect on your lifestyle and habits and see if anything is overwhelming you.

Lifestyle habits

The foods you eat have a direct effect on all systems of your body. Eating too much sugar can throw off the pH balance in your vagina, leading to all kinds of symptoms. Cigarettes are known to decrease circulation, which won’t help you feel better- another reason to quite smoking!

Other health issues that worsen vaginal dryness

Dryness can also be a symptom of other female health issues like yeast infection, bacterial vaginosis, or a UTI. It is possible to treat yeast infections and BV at home, but an un-treated UTI can be very dangerous. Be sure to see your doctor if you are unsure.

If you’ve figured out the reason why you have vaginal dryness, great! Removing whatever aspect of your life that was causing dryness is the first step to feeling better. But there are still many natural oil treatments you can use that will begin the healing process and help you feel more comfortable. Adding the following suggestions into your life can increase your overall health, save you a trip to the doctor, and save you money!

Natural oils for vaginal dryness

Coconut oil

Coconut oil should be a staple in your kitchen and medicine cabinet! Coconut oil contains lauric acid, capric acid and caprylic acid and is antimicrobial, antioxidant, antifungal, and antibacterial. It improves the health of your hair, skin, heart, immune system, digestion, and can aid in weight loss. Apply a small amount of coconut oil directly on the entrance to the vagina everyday, before having sex (it makes a great substitute for store-bought lube), or whenever you are feeling irritation. Eating a teaspoon or so a day will help clear up and prevent other health issues. An excuse to eat more tasty and healthy fat!

Olive oil

Olive oil is another super healthy oil. Apply this directly to the opening of your vagina on a daily or as needed basis. Pour it over your salads or other foods. Avoid cooking with it though, as it has a low smoke-point.

Vitamin E

Vitamin E oil capsules can be inserted directly into the vagina for relief from dryness. Simply find a capsule with no scratches, insert it into your vagina with clean hands, and your vagina will absorb the contents of the capsule. You can also pierce a capsule and rub some of the oil onto the opening of your vagina. Vitamin E oil has been known to strengthen the vaginal lining and increase flexibility.

Calendula oil

Calendula oil, known for it’s healing and soothing properties for all types of ailments, has been known to heal the tissues of the vaginal wall. Calendula contains a high amount of flavenoids, which protect cells from free radicals. It increases blood flow to the area, which speeds the healing process. You can find some at your local herb store, or online.

Comfrey oil

Comfrey oil, another time-tested herbal oil ally, can also help the vagina strengthen and produce its own natural oils. It is a powerful plant that contains allantoin, which has been known to aid in the healing of bone and tissue. Another product you can find at your local herb shop or the Internet.

Evening primrose oil

Evening primrose oil capsules can be taken orally or vaginally for relief from dryness. This oil contains gamma-linolenic acid (GLA), an essential fatty acid that is required for growth, development, and healing of the body. It also helps to relieve many other symptoms associated with menopause.

Essential oils

Essential oils such as jasmine, geranium, lavender, clary sage, neroli, anise, fennel, cypress, angelica, coriander, sage, peppermint, lemon, rose, and chamomile all contain hormone-like substances that are helpful during menopause. They are also soothing when mixed with one of the above-mentioned oils (ie coconut oil) and applied to the vagina. Use only a few drops, and never place essential oils directly on the skin without carrier oil.

Sweet almond oil

Sweet almond oil can be mixed with any of the above essential oils for applying directly to the vagina. It is one of the richest natural sources of Vitamin E.

Essential fatty acids

Essential fatty acids (EFA) are very important in the body as they are used to produce hormones. Fish oil, flaxseed oil, borage oil and olive oil all contain omega-3, 6, and 9, respectively. You can take this by mouth to help relieve your dryness from the inside.

What you should avoid

Stay away from douching, heavily scented soaps and body products, scented tampons/pads, and be sure to wear breathable cotton underwear. Your vagina is self-cleaning, so use only water on the area when bathing and avoid harsh soaps!

If vaginal dryness is affecting your sex life, be sure to talk with your partner and let them know what is going on. You will be able to heal easier and faster without the extra stress of a confused partner. It may seem embarrassing or difficult to bring up, but remember- your partner can’t read your mind! Associating sex with pain due to vaginal dryness can make it even more difficult to recover and enjoy a healthy sex life again. So be sure to experiment with some of these remedies and see what works for you.

Natural cures can be much easier and inexpensive than a lot of pharmaceutical medications, and have hardly any side effects. If dryness persists or worsens, it is important to see a doctor or certified naturopath for further assistance and advice.

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Menopause symptoms, signs, weight gain

Menopause symptoms and the associated signs of menopause are part of a woman’s natural reproductive cycle.
During the early teens, your ovaries will start releasing an egg every month. If the egg is fertilized, pregnancy occurs. If there is no fertilization the egg dies. The uterine lining (endometrium) which was built up in preparation for pregnancy, breaks down and sheds – menstruation.

menopause symptoms

Hormones of the menstrual cycle

There are 4 main hormones involved in the menstrual cycle:

  1. estrogen
  2. progesterone
  3. follicle stimulating hormone (FSH)
  4. luteinizing hormone (LH)

The two that concern you most with regard to signs of menopause and symptoms of menopause are estrogen and progesterone. The menstrual cycle can be divided into 3 parts:

  1. pre-ovulation
  2. post-ovulation
  3. menstruation

What happens in different phases of the menstrual cycle?

In the pre-ovulatory phase, the developing egg releases estrogen mostly. This causes the endometrium to proliferate and thicken. In the post ovulatory phase, progesterone is secreted in increasing amounts from the corpus luteum which is left in the ovary after ovulation.


It acts to increase the blood supply to the endometrium making it water-logged and rich in nutrients. If pregnancy does not occur, the corpus luteum dies through lack of stimulation from a growing fetus. Following this, the secretion of estrogen and progesterone goes down.

The endometrium does not have enough hormonal stimulation to thrive and starts to break down shedding the top 2 layers and leaving the basal layer intact. This is referred to as menstruation. In the absence of pregnancy, this cycle occurs roughly every month (22-35 days).

What happens at menopause?

There is a limited number of eggs in the ovaries and as you get older, more and more of them die off. By the time you’re in your 40s, most of the eggs have been released during ovulation or died and the few that are left are usually of poor quality. Ovulation may not occur every month and the length of the menstrual cycle gradually increases. Menstruation becomes irregular until eventually periods stop altogether.

How does this lead to menopase symptoms?

During this time of irregular ovulation/menstruation, there is marked estrogen and progesterone levels fluctuate a lot. Estrogen levels tend to be higher than those of progesterone, leading to the use of the term ‘estrogen dominance’ to describe this imbalance

Without a corpus luteum there is minimal secretion of progesterone. However, estrogen is still produced (in the fat cell for example) from conversion of androgens (male sex hormones) produced by the ovaries and adrenal glands. Menopause symptoms and menopause signs are thus caused by several factors:

  1. imbalance between estrogen and progesterone
  2. progesterone deficiency
  3. estrogen deficiency

Common menopause symptoms

The following list of menopause symptoms and menopause signs is very long and far from exhaustive. Fortunately, no woman will have all the menopause symptoms and signs and some women are fortunate enough to have relatively mild menopause symptoms.

  • hot flashes (the most common menopause symptom, affecting about 85% of women)
  • depression
  • forgetfulness
  • headaches
  • inability to concentrate
  • irritability
  • mood swings
  • chest pain
  • palpitations
  • sore breasts
  • irregular/heavy bleeding
  • vaginal dryness
  • itchy vulva
  • loss of sex drive
  • slower sexual arousal
  • painful intercourse
  • constipation
  • abdominal bloating
  • irritable bladder
  • frequent bladder infection
  • frequent urination
  • increased facial hair
  • thinning hair
  • itchy skin
  • brittle nails
  • pins and needles
  • sore muscles
  • stiff/swollen joints
  • back pain

These menopause symptoms occur at various times. Early symptoms of menopause include irregular or heavy vaginal bleeding while menopause symptoms like thinning of the hair and brittle nails may not occur for several years after the menopause.

Menopausal weight gain (also known as middle age spread) is common from about age 40 and onwards. At this time you may find yourself putting on weight or find that it becomes difficult to prevent weight gain post menopause even though you are still eating the same amount of food.

Menopausal weight gain- middle age weight loss

Causes of menopausal weight gain

Menopausal weight gain doesn’t appear overnight. During the years leading up to menopause you may put on about a pound a year.There are several reasons for this :

  1. You tend to be less active as you get older.
  2. Your body needs less energy as you get older so you burn fewer calories.
  3. Over time your muscles become replaced with fat, which burns fewer calories than muscle.
  4. You tend to eat more.
  5. Your genes may play a role. If your parents had trouble with weight, especially with fat around the tummy, you may too.
  6. Hormonal changes may contribute.

How to avoid middle age spread

The formula for losing weight and preventing weight gain is quite simply. If you take in more calories than you use up, the excess calories will be stored as fat. So to lose weight, you need to use up more calories than you eat.
Sounds a lot easier than it is!

So what do you do?

  1. Get moving. – Even if you eat the same amount of food but you increase the amount of exercise you get, you should lose weight. It is important to combine aerobic exercise with weight training for best results.
  2. Eat less. – There are 2 ways of looking at this. You can look at this in terms of the quantity of food that you eat or in terms of the number of calories in your food.

You should avoid ‘energy dense’ foods. These are foods that have lots of calories crammed into very small quantities of food. Things like ice cream, chocolates, soft drinks (sodas), fries e.t.c. fall into this category. A plate of veggies will definitely contain less calories than a bar of chocolate or a can of soda and will be more filling and chock full of vitamins and minerals.

On the other hand you could reduce the size of your portions which may leave you feeling hungry leading to snacking later on.
The6 tips to avoid it

Don’t let weekend weight gain ruin all your hard work!

You’re usually a bit stressed out during the week trying to juggle all your responsibilities. You do your strength training and cardio religiously. You pass on the creamy, rich desserts and you eat lots of fruit and vegetables. You control your portion sizes and make sure to drink lots of water.

You’re there for your spouse, partner, kids, family, colleagues and just about everyone else that needs or wants a bit of you for one reason or another. So the weekend is the time to let it all hang out and relax right? This might be the only time you have to give yourself some love. But guess what? What you eat while you’re chilling out may be the cause of your weekend weight gain.

On weekends, you may have more time to prepare sumptuous meals (my family looks forward to their saturday breakfast!)If you’re at home, remember that idle hands need something to keep them busy.

It’s easier to pig out on fattening snacks and unhealthy treats while you’re watching tv or reading a novel or magazine for example. Going out is another pitfall because you may be less conscious of what and how much you’re eating while you’re chatting and having a good time.

With all this, some people may eat more than 800 extra Calories over the weekend. This can add up to an extra 5.5kg (about 12 pounds) of weight a year.

How do you avoid the extra weekend weight gain?

  • Watch your food portions.
  • Go easy on the alcohol which contains a lot of empty calories.
  • Eat more fruit and vegetables.
  • Eat healthy snacks like popcorn, my new favourite. I make my own so I can control how much sugar I put in it and I use olive oil.
  • Watch less tv.
  • Get up and get moving.

Alli for weight loss – how does it work?

Alli is not a new drug. It is the baby sister of the drug Xenical, a prescription drug used to treat obesity. They both contain the same substance, orlistat. The only difference is in quantity. Xenical contains 120mg of orlistat while Alli contains 60mg of orlistat. Alli should be used by overweight adults (over 18 years) as an aid to weight loss together with diet and exercise.

Alli is basically a fat blocker. It works by stopping a substance called lipase from working in your bowel. Lipase breaks down the fat that you eat into little pieces so that it can be absorbed into the body. As the fat is not broken down and absorbed, it passes through the bowel unchanged and is removed when you go to toilet.

How do you use Alli?

Alli is taken with a meal that contains fat up to 3 times a day. You should not eat more than 15g of fat in each meal as this increases the possibility of side effects.

How long should you use Alli?

The manufacturers suggest that you may only need to use it for 6 months as that is when most of the weight loss occurs.

What are the side effects of Alli?

Side effects are more common when you eat more than the recommended 15g of fat per meal. However, they can still occur even if you are within the recommended limits. They include

  1. frequent bowel movements
  2. very soft stool and even diarrhea
  3. gas
  4. oily discharge from the anus
  5. bowel movements that are hard to control

Who should not use Alli?

You should not use Alli if you:

  1. are not overweight
  2. are taking cyclosporins
  3. have had an organ transplant
  4. have trouble absorbing food (malabsorbtion)
  5. are using medication that thins the blood
  6. are diabetic
  7. have thyroid problems

Will Alli help you lose weight?

The short answer to that is yes. It is recommended that Alli should be used as an aid to weight loss in combination with a healthy diet and exercise.
But don’t expect the pounds to just fall off! Xenical, the prescription-only, double strength big sister of Alli induced a weight loss of about 6 pounds in one year. At half strength, Alli is expected to produce about half the weight loss, ie about 3 pounds a year compared to expected weight loss using diet and exercise alone.
Another thing to consider – if you stop using Alli, that weight you lost comes right back!

I have heard of people losing 10lb in 8 weeks and other similar stories. Some people that have tried almost every diet they have come across without success have been able to lose weight with Alli. It works in your intestines and not in the brain or anywhere else so you won’t get the jitters like with some other weight loss aids. It has worked for lots of women, it may work for you too.